habits

You've got Goals? Me too!

I love learning new things.

Tonight, during dinner, I told my husband and daughter about one of my favorite books from elementary school. I don’t remember the exact name but it was something like Why is the Sky Blue and Other Things You Wish You Knew. You can find lots of books like it on Amazon today. (I just checked!)

So sometimes people assume that I spend a lot of time at home with my head buried in a book. In reality, I don’t spend nearly as much time with books as I would like. My days are probably a lot like yours. I unload the dishwasher, fold laundry, pay bills, and cook meals.

But that doesn’t mean I can’t make learning new things a seamless part of my day.

My sister in law, Stacee, told me that this summer she is asking her boys, ages 10 and 8, to create a summer goal list. Their lists include both a physical and a learning goal. Badge wants to run a 20 minute 5K and eight -year old Rowe wants to learn how to sew a dinosaur stuffed animal.

I think Stacee is onto something. Even adults need #summergoals.

To be sure, personal goals might be harder to come by these days as all of us are playing catch up after a year of stay-at-home orders. I’m fully vaccinated and so excited to be out and about that it’s hard to imagine sitting still at home long enough to complete a project—even a worthy one.

Sometimes the hard thing is the best thing.

The pandemic changed so many aspects of daily life. As we settle back into the rhythms and routines of our own choosing perhaps we can also make room for some achievable goals. This summer, I’m working on becoming fluent in Spanish. I downloaded the free Duolingo app, and I’m on a 60 day practice streak. I’ve also been consistent with my daily workouts, and during a normal spin class I often ride 20 miles. This summer I really want to work up to 50.

These goals are attainable because they’re based on habits I’m already practicing. Your goals don’t have to be ambitious to be worthy. What are you already doing that could be better? If you love to cook, maybe you work on perfecting a particularly difficult recipe, like croissants or a multi-layer cake. If you love paper, learn calligraphy. Maybe you used to play an instrument, but haven’t touched it in years. You may be rusty at first, but commit to learning a new song over the next few weeks.

As the world continues to change, specialized skills will be in demand. Even without an advanced degree, you can add value to your family, school, and community.

I’d love to know what you’re working on this summer! Send me a note, and let’s chat!